{"id":1603,"date":"2016-04-19T19:02:49","date_gmt":"2016-04-19T23:02:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.yoursash.com\/blog\/?p=1603"},"modified":"2016-04-19T19:02:49","modified_gmt":"2016-04-19T23:02:49","slug":"adulting-101-finding-a-mentor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.yoursash.com\/blog\/uncategorized\/adulting-101-finding-a-mentor\/","title":{"rendered":"Adulting 101: Finding a Mentor"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\t\t\t\tFinding a mentor sounds super important and official, so let\u2019s make it a little bit more casual. Finding a Mentor doesn\u2019t mean that it has to be a professor or some super successful business person, but that would be pretty cool.<\/p>\n<p>Anyone can be your mentor so long as it is someone that you look up to and they can offer you a lot of important insight and advice in terms of your life goals. So again, don\u2019t ask a professor to be your mentor if you have no intention of teaching because it doesn\u2019t make any sense and you\u2019re just wasting your own time.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/yoursash.define3.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/17\/2016\/04\/board-784349_960_720.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-1606 size-full\" src=\"http:\/\/yoursash.define3.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/17\/2016\/04\/board-784349_960_720.jpg\" alt=\"board-784349_960_720\" width=\"960\" height=\"640\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.yoursash.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/17\/2016\/04\/board-784349_960_720.jpg 960w, https:\/\/www.yoursash.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/17\/2016\/04\/board-784349_960_720-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.yoursash.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/17\/2016\/04\/board-784349_960_720-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 960px) 100vw, 960px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>The most important thing to remember when deciding on this is to really take a good hard look at who you want to look up to for advice and think if that person is a really good fit. Just because he\/she is your friend, it doesn\u2019t mean that they automatically get to be that person for you.<\/p>\n<h1>I was once told, <strong>\u201cDon\u2019t take advice from a loser no matter how much you respect them.\u201d<\/strong><\/h1>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: center\"><strong>It\u2019s the truest statement that needs to be said.<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/yoursash.define3.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/17\/2016\/04\/Screen-Shot-2016-04-19-at-3.54.02-PM.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-1604 size-full aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/yoursash.define3.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/17\/2016\/04\/Screen-Shot-2016-04-19-at-3.54.02-PM.png\" alt=\"Screen Shot 2016-04-19 at 3.54.02 PM\" width=\"513\" height=\"476\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.yoursash.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/17\/2016\/04\/Screen-Shot-2016-04-19-at-3.54.02-PM.png 513w, https:\/\/www.yoursash.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/17\/2016\/04\/Screen-Shot-2016-04-19-at-3.54.02-PM-300x278.png 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 513px) 100vw, 513px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Your friend may have a lot of advice and thoughts on how you\u2019re living your life, but take a good look at theirs. Does it match what you want to accomplish? Are they successful in living out their dreams whether it be earning a lot of money or starting their own non profit organization?<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/yoursash.define3.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/17\/2016\/04\/friends-1084598_960_720.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-1607 size-full\" src=\"http:\/\/yoursash.define3.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/17\/2016\/04\/friends-1084598_960_720.jpg\" alt=\"friends-1084598_960_720\" width=\"960\" height=\"640\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.yoursash.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/17\/2016\/04\/friends-1084598_960_720.jpg 960w, https:\/\/www.yoursash.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/17\/2016\/04\/friends-1084598_960_720-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.yoursash.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/17\/2016\/04\/friends-1084598_960_720-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 960px) 100vw, 960px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s a fine line between business and personal and sooner or later, you\u2019re going to learn this lesson the hard way that doing business with friends isn\u2019t always the way to go.\t\t<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Finding a mentor sounds super important and official, so let\u2019s make it a little bit more casual. Finding a Mentor doesn\u2019t mean that it has&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":1586,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1603","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.yoursash.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1603","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.yoursash.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.yoursash.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.yoursash.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.yoursash.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1603"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.yoursash.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1603\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.yoursash.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1586"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.yoursash.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1603"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.yoursash.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1603"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.yoursash.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1603"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}